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stress is poison by Giulia Bartra
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  • Post category:Behaviour / Mental health
  • Post published:February 19, 2017

You don’t need to play the self-blame game: personalising everything and blaming yourself for anything that goes wrong, even when it’s not your fault or responsibility. Instead, find all the causes. What else could explain it? Is it really all about you?

Source: Common thinking errors @ ReachOut.com: Get through tough times

Photo: stress is poison by Giulia Bartra under Creative Commons license

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