You are needed
We need you out here in the world; don’t cheat us of your gifts by getting stuck in low self-esteem.
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We need you out here in the world; don’t cheat us of your gifts by getting stuck in low self-esteem.
Healthy self-esteem requires self-understanding, acceptance, and forgiveness, plus large doses of self-compassion. It needs ongoing vigilance and upkeep until you’ve formed healthier habits of self-esteem.
A warm saltwater mouthwash rinse is a good short-term treatment when you’ve lost a tooth, have a mouth infection or ulcer. It is a natural disinfectant, and also removes any swelling from the tissues.
“I zoom out in my mind to a point far enough away and above so that I can see things in my life for what they are. By doing this, I can see from a distance how small and unimportant the situation is in the big scope of the universe.” – Larry Stilts
Sometimes the right path is not the easiest one.
You can prepare for common household emergencies: water pipe leak (know where your stopcock is), power cut (torches in all the bedrooms), being snowed in (have a snow shovel), blocked toilet or pipes (plunger), being locked out (leave a key with a trusted neighbour).
Managing your money effectively helps you avoid stressful situations, such as getting into debt, or running out of money so you can’t pay for things. It helps keep your money safe – for example, in a bank account.
Managing your money is an important life skill, and includes keeping your money safe, making sure you have at least enough to pay for your needs, and staying in control of any payments you have to make.
Self-esteem rises when you know you can trust yourself, when you trust your own instincts and intuition over the ideas of others, and when you’ve proven to yourself that you can face disappointment and frustration without becoming destabilised.
Take time to identify what matters most to you. Measure all your choices and actions against these core values, making sure they match up.