Treat other people the way they like being treated. You make a great impression by focusing on their likes, not yours.
Perseverance: identify your goal, plot a course, prepare, take the 1st step, when and if you fail note what caused this then get back up and try again.
There will always be unexpected turns in your life but what separates success and failure is one thing: perseverance.
Perseverance is important: it helps you to keep moving forward and not give up on dreams. It is rare that someone gets it right first time – push yourself to try again.
Perseverance is commitment, patience, hard work; the ability to withstand difficulties calmly and without complaining; trying several times until you attain a goal.
If you shift your attention away from yourself and onto others – compassionately taking interest in their concerns – shyness may become a thing of the past.
Introverts prefer solitary to social activities as they get no reward from social activities, but do not fear social encounters like shy people do.
Shyness has three characteristics that involve a sense of self: excessive self-consciousness, excessive negative self-evaluation and excessive negative self-preoccupation.
The primary defining characteristic of shyness is a largely ego-driven fear of what other people will think of a person’s behaviour, which results in the person becoming scared of doing or saying what he or she wants to, out of fear of negative reactions, criticism, rejection, and simply opting to avoid social situations instead.
When the water in a tank is polluted, all taps will only give polluted water. Your heart is the tank. When it is filled with good thoughts and feelings, all that comes out of the senses – your speech, your vision, your actions – will be pure.