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Raving by Benjamin Chun
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  • Post category:Feelings and Emotions / Mental health
  • Post published:August 18, 2018

The person you hold a grudge against isn’t necessarily hurt by this – they go on living their life whilst you are the one stuck dwelling on the things you feel they did. You are the one that continues to hurt inside, while the other person is out dancing.

Source: Hurt people hurt people @ My So-Called Chaos: Life, love, and Everyday Insanity.

image: Raving by Benjamin Chun under Creative Commons license

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Tags: emotions, feelings, forgiveness, mental health

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