You can’t please everyone
You can’t please all the people all of the time; it can be liberating to let people think whatever they want – they’re going to do it anyway. Accept it. Then let it go!
If we perceive our results as failure instead of feedback, we can feel sorry for ourselves. If we accept that every result we get in life is simply feedback, whether it’s positive or negative, each situation will present us with a learning opportunity.
Never be Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired: HALT. It’s time to STOP, put things on hold and give yourself a chance to reflect and recover.