Look for ways to feel more in control with change that is coming your way. For example if you are moving to a new house, research it as much as possible before you move. What shops are nearby? What things will help you to ease into your new environment?
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The person you hold a grudge against isn’t necessarily hurt by this – they go on living their life whilst you are the one stuck dwelling on the things you feel they did. You are the one that continues to hurt inside, while the other person is out dancing.