Short messages on Family issues and relationships from Respect Yourself, the guidance site for young people to help make good decisions in life.
If your parents separate you may feel loss: of “home”, of trust in the past and future, of security and protection, of financial stability, and of what family has meant to you until now.
If one or both parents are leaning too heavily on you for support, discuss with them who else they can turn to. You will have limits, bearing in mind all the other things you have to do.
Finding it hard to talk about how you are really feeling? Samaritans is a safe place to turn; it’s anonymous and confidential: 08457 90 90 90 or jo@samaritans.org .
Decide who the ‘people of value’ are in your life. These are the real people you know who mean something to you. Look after them and your relationship with them.
If something is troubling you, Samaritans are available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. All chats are completely confidential. You can reach them on 08457 90 90 90 or jo@samaritans.org .
Don’t forget about your dog when you introduce a new member to the family. Never leave a dog alone with a child; always supervise dogs and children.
You can contact local dog rescue organisations in your area and offer to volunteer some of your spare time with dogs waiting to be re-homed.
Being a responsible owner is the most important consideration before buying, adopting or agreeing to own a dog. This involves an unwritten contract of appropriately caring for, feeding, protecting and sheltering your new best friend for up to 15 years and maybe more.
Research getting the ‘right’ breed of dog for your family so you know what to expect of the breed and if it fits with your lifestyle – it will avoid disappointments and guarantees a happy relationship with the dog.
80,000 children will wake up homeless on Christmas Day in the UK. You can help homeless charity Shelter by donating your money or your time.